A Labyrinthine Journey: Soon Coming in 3-D

One of those strange phenomenons I see in my own life is the cycle of discouragement.

The first step in the cycle is that I do something, or something happens to me that is wonderful. Maybe I am blessed with a surprising and special grace from someone. Maybe out of the blue, I have one of those experiences of God’s living and loving presence. Or maybe, I have done something that I know has truly touched someone’s life. A great success. A tangible and visible fruit of my words or leadership. I feel on top of the world. The day is a very good day.

Then, the other part of the cycle kicks in. The doubts arise. The emptiness in my heart is palatable. It comes as wilderness. My well is dry. The grip of inertia mocks any attempt I make to rouse my mind or spirit.

I hate it. It drives me crazy. It is virtually predictable and ever dependable.

Yet, I found myself today with the revelation that this cycle might be a great gift from the same loving God who blesses me with the mountaintops.

Well, Paul in this week’s lectionary helped in that seeing…

I know a person in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven–whether in the body or out of the body I do not know; God knows. And I know that such a person–whether in the body or out of the body I do not know; God knows–was caught up into Paradise and heard things that are not to be told, that no mortal is permitted to repeat. On behalf of such a one I will boast, but on my own behalf I will not boast, except of my weaknesses.
But if I wish to boast, I will not be a fool, for I will be speaking the truth. But I refrain from it, so that no one may think better of me than what is seen in me or heard from me, even considering the exceptional character of the revelations. Therefore, to keep me from being too elated, a thorn was given me in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me, to keep me from being too elated. Three times I appealed to the Lord about this, that it would leave me, but he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities for the sake of Christ; for whenever I am weak, then I am strong.  – 2 Corinthians 12:2-10 – NRSV

Now, I don’t really know what Paul’s thorn was, yet I don’t think that detail matters as much as Paul’s process of taking something which really bothered him and frustrated him, and recasts it in light of God’s grace into something that does serve God and Paul’s love relationship with God.

Could my cycle of discouragement be God’s gracious antidote to feeding my own ego-centric tendencies? When I feel empty, is it a wonderful invitation from God to let go of my own experience of God’s goodness and to really trust in God’s goodness alone? I still find the discouragement hanging over my head as I write, but I think I will thank God for the shade and wait to see what God will do next in my life.

I confess, I love summer vacation. Not so much that I get a lot of time off (though we do get away a little) but that the season breathes freedom to play. Also the heat of the day leads me to much needed slowing down time. When it is almost 100 degrees (as it is when I write these words) you can’t do anything fast. You can’t push your life. Let these words about the desert mystics be a guide for us.

In the desert the most urgent thing is—to wait. The desert does not take kindly to those who tackle it at breakneck speed, subjecting it to their plans and deadlines. It soon takes its revenge and makes them pay dearly for their presumption. Instead, the desert welcomes those who shed their sandals of speed and walk slowly in their bare feet, letting them be caressed and burnt by the sand. If you have no ambition to conquer the desert, if you do not think you are in charge, if you can calmly wait for things to be done, then the desert will not consider you an intruder and will reveal its secrets to you. – By Alessandro Pronzato

We all need that time to slow down, sit a spell, and drink lots of water. God didn’t make us to be driven 24 hours a day as machines. God from the very beginning instilled in us and the universe the rhythms of day and night, work and rest, with a healthy dose of worship and sabbath. So this summer, take advantage of the invitation to slow down and be re-created.

However, don’t take a vacation from God.

We easily do that when we forget gratitude. Don’t just turn off your heart as you sit on the beach, look around and give thanks for the sun and sand and cooling water. Don’t close your spirit when you work and serve other people, offer your ideas and talents to others as gifts of God to you and through you. Don’t be selfish with your time, be sure to share your time with people in need as well as others who gather in worship. God is the source of all things, not because we deserve them, but because of Divine Love. Find ways to express, witness, and share your gratitude in the space this summer gives you.

When I first started becoming aware of the presence of depression in my life, I would describe it as a void of emotion. At one level, the emptiness felt like a nothingness. I would look inside and would not find feelings or words. Even now as I see signs of burn out and even acedia in my inner landscape it would appear to be life/God forsaken.

One of the things I have been learning over the years is my experience of emptiness is more akin to overload. Instead of not feeling, I am over-feeling and my soul clicks a switch to protect itself from self-destruct. This remembering does help calm the fear and soothe the guilt which amplifies the emotional overload and keeps the breaker switch tripped.

While the image of the desert does come from time to time, the prevailing image for me is that of dense fog or overgrown swamp. It isn’t so much that I can’t find feelings to feel, it is a matter of I can’t sort through all that are there.

For example, there are many times when I feel like I have no strength at all and I am tempted to run away and not come out until I feel all better. Yet, as I continue to explore and accept my 8 Enneatype, I recognize that deep strength and energy are at the core of my essence. I learn to look for the ways I have lost sight of that essential connection with my core. And that core is really there all the time.

Another example is the bad thought of acedia (my Enneatype 9 wing), which is at its base an uncaring. In the grip of that thought I don’t care. I can’t care for myself, I can’t care for my family, my ministry, or anyone/anything. So I just sit unmoving. But Essence comes to me and bothers me. I find myself caring that I don’t care. I remember that I am a caring person, and if I feel uncaring, I have lost sight of that essential connection to my core (yes, I just repeated myself from above). Caring deeply for life and others (including myself) is part of how God made each of us and I need to believe that Essence is not lost even when I have lost the sight of the connection.

Usually, when I rediscover the connection, it is because I have too much. I am lost in the everything unable to focus on the lines and threads of life’s Essence.

I feel the same way with my longing and yearning to write. I have a growing folder of random pieces of paper that represent thoughts and ideas to reflect further on and write to share with others. Some of those become the source of my blog posts (the purpose of this nice technology for me) in a more raw form. I don’t do much editing with my blog posts (you can probably tell) by choice. Someone I read suggested that the raw nature of the medium provides some way to slip thoughts past my very active internal critic. The only critic I engage is the one that assesses whether the words will bring harm to others especially my family.

I talk about grace and compassion a lot. Part of the reason for that is that I find myself needing to practice that grace and compassion with myself as well. To not only invite my inner critic to have compassion upon me, but to have compassion on the inner critic part of me as well.

Only that personal and divine grace will bring clarifying light to the fear-filled fog/darkness/swamp/whatever in my life. And a big part of that grace is not to give up on myself or the work of the Holy Spirit.

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• RT @mdemuth: “Next to faith this is the highest art–to be content with the calling in which God has placed you.” Martin Luther. Amen! 09:45:23
• trying to work up an article for community paper: in time of anxiety building a house on the sand of fear vs on bedrock of God’s promises 10:26:20
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• RT @jenlouden: RT @FredericBrussat: Creativity: To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong – J. Pearce (perfect for me) 14:24:35
• New blog posting, Great Post on Thriving to jump to – http://tinyurl.com/oohnox 20:43:11
• Been doing computer related research tonight. Anyone use dimdim.com for online conferencing? What I see looks great for what we want. 20:46:51
• Turning attention to funeral preparation. A saint of the church who 6 yrs ago slipped away into Alzheimers. Her body finally caught up. 21:08:02
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• Been watching History Channel. Don’t quite get the whole “Angels & Demons” controversy of the new movie. 00:07:56
• Time for bed. We celebrate the life of a dear 101 year old saint Monday afternoon. Blessings Ida Mae. 00:08:44
• New blog posting, Tweets for 2009-05-10 – http://tinyurl.com/o5l9lg 01:37:40
• trying to put together a Celebration of Life for sweet lady, lots of good interruptions this morning. Not worried though. 10:40:23
• RT @earthmystic: We have heaven within ourselves since the Lord of heaven is there. — St. Teresa of Avila 10:40:51
• RT @iDontLikechurch: When the unchurched become people and not projects – you may actually win them 10:43:50
• RT @butterflybeacon: We do not need to beg Him to bless us. He simply cannot help it. –Hannah Whitall Smith #quote 12:08:17

• Tomorrow should be fun (really, I’m not kidding) teaching the Trinity to Confirmation class. 00:18:34
• New blog posting, Tweets for 2009-05-09 – http://tinyurl.com/qrh6e6 01:27:23
• A spring morning in Iowa. 36 degrees F.? What’s up with that? 08:01:22
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• New blog posting, Tweets for 2009-05-08 – http://tinyurl.com/r73tp5 01:29:50
• As a preacher, my throat is my most vulnerable place. If I get any kind of cold, it focuses on my throat. True today. Healing please? 12:19:34
• this week in my Rethinking Church: moving our how from Gravitational to Radiational: using @lensweet APC 2 MRI model in So Beautiful 15:41:08
• RT @missional: Women: 1/2 world’s population, do 2/3 world’s work, earn 1/10 of world’s income, own 1/100 of world’s property/land. #fail 23:26:22

• New blog posting, Tweets for 2009-05-07 – http://tinyurl.com/osp982 01:33:37
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• RT @missional: A key 2 racial reconciliation is, not to demand of the other, but to submit to one another. We must submit together 2 Christ. 14:06:48
• was going to mow my lawn, but now it is raining. Alas …*feigned sigh while badly repressing smile* 14:11:24
• Somewhat of a quiet day. Did get a chance to work on the element of water in the #Enneagram types. 19:15:20
• time for bed. Thoughts of lights and lamps under baskets mixed with the call to be missional people. Hope some dreams can help sort 23:57:51

• New blog posting, Tweets for 2009-05-06 – http://tinyurl.com/cjawyl 01:28:19
• Just a couple items on the schedule: community Day of Prayer (I pray for the global community), then a funeral. 09:24:02
• Then sometime today I want to do sermon prep and confirmation class planning. A few things todo before tomorrow’s day of rest. 09:24:56
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At our local National Day of Prayer, I offered the Global prayer. Here is my prayer…

O God, you remind us daily that we are all connected in one global community. What happens in one corner of our planet touches our lives and our choices affect the whole. Help us to see our political borders and divisions as human constructions and not part of your divine creation and plan.

Grant us the grace to be better stewards of your creation and better neighbors. May each of us continue to seek justice in all our relationships, wisdom in all our ideas and attitudes and peace in our hearts and in our world.

I pray today for each of the over 6.7 billion members of our world-wide community. Touch each life with your righteousness and love. May each one know your life-giving presence in some way today.